Jun 16, 2006

All life is an experiment. Ralph Waldo Emerson

Bullies
Internet or otherwise.

defin:
People who have no sense of self-worth or value.

example:

The two 12 year old morons that hurt me weekly with sticks and stones to prove to each other that neither of them liked me.


addendum:
This behavior is not limited to men.

6 comments:

Christopher Steven b. said...

i really should be
a bully; that is,
i have been trained
by the best.
have seen the man
pull his wife
across the floor
by her hair
because she left
potato peelings
in the sink.

Christopher Steven b. said...

interesting. i sit now in
the home, the walls
still vibrating, the
glass door still
missing from the
tv cabinet. and
on sunday i will
play along in some
sick game in which i
exchange money i do not have
for an item that will not come
to any use for
a man who was an
in the house
absentee
dad.
Happy Father's Day!!
[i can be fully aware of something horrid and yet smile genuinely.
as
i
do
now..]

Unknown said...

I beat up my first bully when I was four—the bully was eight.
I had to put down at least twenty more bullies before I reached 18.
They were all bullies, all in the wrong, and I handled it the only way I knew how.
After 18 I learned how to scare them down with the violence in my voice and words.
.
I know words are just words, but they still hurt. And I know bullies just use ‘bullying’ as a defense against the pain in their lives, but that’s no excuse to give pain to others. Bullies are bastards. Bastards of Bastards!

Show resistance, ANY resistance; then you win.
Even if I lost all those fights, I would have won in truth, because I stood up to them. Something they were unable to do to their own pain.

I know someone who recently had to stand up for herself. And I’m proud of her. She’s a winner in my book. My kinda girl.

"Life feeds upon itself to grow."--Vince

Jozee said...

@ CSb & Vince
Good morning. I went to bed after this post. frustrated with the html. I published anyway- without the definition showing. Woke up this morning and wondered if I should erase this post or save it to draft.

To my surprise, the two of you were here and left me the most precious of gifts. Your experiences.

Csb, I know the kind of acting of which you speak. No one should have to endure those circumstances. I'm sorry. I'm sorry for the wife whom I understand to be your mom. Your attempts at acting will most certainly give her some peace. It shouldn't have to be that way. Till she's able to better her circumstances it's important to support her in any way you can. Peace.

Vince,
I'm sorry you didn't have someone to defend you at four.

Motherf**kers!!!! Some people just don't get it till someone tells them to step off.

I'm a lover, not a fighter, but I'm also a survivor. <3

Erin O'Brien said...

Any mother effers mess with you, call me.

Just dig how I handled this broad.

Jozee said...

Erin, thanks for the offer. Let's see you're five one and I'm five two that equals ten foot three of - lookout here we come!

At my advanced age it gets easier and easier for me to believe in karma.

Laws o the universe- what goes around comes around.

Oh, yes my f key has something under it but that works out quite well at times.